Stop the Fighting. Feel Heard Again. Rebuild the Emotional Safety Your Relationship Is Missing.

Work with a couples therapist who helps you slow conflict, understand what’s actually happening underneath the fights, and rebuild emotional safety without blame or shame.

Is This Your Relationship Right Now?

Most couples who find me online are not here for “maintenance.” They are here because something feels like it is breaking. You might recognize yourselves in some of this:

You keep having the same fight in different costumes. Nothing ever really resolves.

One of you feels ignored, unloved, or disrespected, while the other feels constantly criticized or never good enough.

You have lost emotional or sexual intimacy and do not know how to get it back without a huge blowup.

There has been betrayal, secrecy, or broken trust, and simple “communication tips” feel laughably small compared to the pain you are in.

You have tried therapy before, but it felt too slow, too soft, or you left feeling like nothing actually changed.

If that is you, my work is built for exactly this kind of relationship. I specialize in complex, high conflict, high pain marriages and long term partnerships.

How My Couples Counseling is Different

What does working with me actually feel like? I am not a “smile and ask how that makes you feel” therapist. Here is how I work:

I will interrupt you when necessary.

When you start running the same script that has never worked, I jump in and redirect, so you do not waste your time or money re-enacting the same fight in my office.

I use real world tools, not vague theory.

I pull from evidence based methods and my own frameworks like The Bridge Index™ to diagnose where the relationship is breaking down and give you step by step ways to repair it.

I am quite comfortable in the deep end.

Affairs, sexual issues, addiction, rage, years of resentment. All of it is just a my normal day at work. You do not have to edit or sugarcoat anything here. I've dealt with everything.

I push for both change and accountability.

I give homework, and micro commitments designed to shift the dynamic every single week. You will know exactly what you are working on between sessions.

If you want a counselor who will challenge you, advocate for your marriage, and tell you the truth gently but directly, we will probably be a great fit.

Real Couples, Real Breakthroughs

Hear from some real clients who have worked with Dr. Jon Directly

“The difference is incredible. We’re finally communicating, there’s intimacy again, and for the first time in years I feel hopeful about us.”

Kenny

"We were on two different planets with horrible communications constantly hitting each other triggers. Dr. Jon was able to help before my husband wanted to participate."

Alexandra

"Dr. Jon saved us from calling off a wedding at the 25th hour. The stress really got to us and he was a life-saver at a key moment in our journey as a couple."

Kat

“It’s a miracle… 500% better. Not just my marriage, but my dignity and self-respect. Everything just feels real again now.”

Rob

"It’s the first time someone helped us feel safe enough to be real. Dr. Jon made honesty feel safer than pretending."

Vanessa & Tommy

Together 3 years

"I used to think counseling was just talking and venting about stuff. With Jon, it felt like waking up to the real issues we never faced before."

Aimee & Jerome

Together 6 years

"Dr. Jon made me feel understood without letting me hide. I’ve never met a counselor who balances empathy and truth like this."

Cindy & Devon

Together 22 years

AS FEATURED ON

You have probably seen me before

Therapists are everywhere. Actual experts who live and breathe relationships are extremely rare. I have grown an audience of over 1,000,000 followers across Instagram & Facebook (@communicationjon) by saying what most therapists are afraid to say and by helping couples cut through the bullshit and get honest about what is really going on.

Dr. Jon Dabach on Mtv's Teen Mom Next Chapter

Over 1,000,000 Followers across Facebook & Instagram

Specializing in rapid change for my clients

A compassionate but no-nonsense approach

Free Bonus: The Bridge Index™ Assessment

When you book your free consultation today, you and your partner will receive complimentary access to The Bridge Index™, my proprietary assessment that has already been used by over 50,000 couples. Normally $47, you will get it free as a bonus with your consultation. The Bridge Index™ helps you:

Identify your top 3 conflict zones

Understand your unique relationship patterns across 10 key areas

Get a map of where connection is breaking down and where it's still strong

You will each complete the assessment, and then we will review the results together so you finally have language and clarity for what is really going on.

How The Bridge Index™ Works

Three simple steps to relationship clarity

01

Answer 60 Key Questions

Share honest insights about communication, intimacy, trust, conflict resolution, and 6 other critical connection areas.

02

Get Your Detailed Report

Receive a comprehensive analysis that maps your relationship's strengths and pinpoints the exact areas causing conflict.

03

Follow Your Action Plan

Use personalized, proven strategies to address your specific challenges and rebuild the connection you're missing.

The 10 Areas of Connection

The Bridge Index™ measures what matters most in your relationship

Social
How you connect with friends and social circles

Financial
Money management and financial alignment

Parenting
Your approach to raising children together

Teamwork
How you collaborate and support each other

Mentorship
How you guide and encourage growth

Sexual
Your physical intimacy and sexual connection

Familial
Relationships with extended family members

Ideology
Shared values, beliefs, and worldviews

Affection
Emotional warmth and physical touch

Reliance
Trust and dependability in the relationship

Expert-Developed Assessment

Created by Dr. Jon Dabach

Dr. Jon Dabach has spent nearly fifteen years as a couples counselor and relationship coach, helping restore and transform over 3,000 relationships.

Grounded in time-tested principles, he developed this assessment to quickly uncover the deeper patterns and conflicts that keep couples stuck, allowing the work to move faster and with greater clarity.

3,000+

Relationships Saved

1M+

Followers Online

“The Bridge Index™ is the result of 15 years of clinical experience. A precise tool to help couples find their way back to each other.”

Meet with Dr. Jon Dabach

Stop Guessing. Start Healing.

Schedule a FREE consultation with Dr. Jon and experience firsthand how your relationship can change under the guidance of a seasoned expert who combines compassion with proven insight. He’ll help you understand what’s really happening in your marriage in ways no one has explained before. This is your opportunity to start turning things around.

Free Online Assessment

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(818) 514-0138 | [email protected]
23901 Calabasas Road, Suite 1078, Calabasas, CA 91302